I joined rlc in July 2016; first of all not really knowing what I would find here and what „possibilities“ this site offers. I can understand that people want to protect their privacy in here and so do I but thinking that you can hide behind this „supposed“ anonymity does not give whoever the right to harm others. I think how you behave in here says a lot too about how you behave in rl and how you treat people there too and this has nothing to do with roleplays or fantasies.

I really love to chat and I love to write... just like that it feels to me that in moments when I'm alone that there is still someone listening. So if you're interested in getting to know me better having a closer look at what I wrote here may help already :)

If you find your pleasure in lying, cheating and deceiving others then please move on and don’t contact me. I'm maybe not in here as long as many others but I saw and lived enough to know what I don't want or don't want anymore.

Now here comes a point that, if some people are going to read this they will laugh, though they have no reasons at all to do so! I hate hypocritics and most of all lying hypocritics so if you don’t like what I do or if you think you have to manipulate me and blame me for things you’re just too coward to admit thinking the neighbours will not like you anymore, then go and get some balls.

Don’t and I repeat…don’t ask me if I want to fuck or tell me how huge certain parts of your body are. I sure do but with sentences like this we’re certainly not playing on the same level and never will.

If you meet someone nearly every day in here, go out together, have the same names and even wear partner dresses and a marriage certificate on your profile…then face the truth that you DO HAVE a gf/bf. I have nothing against a nice chat but I’m not a substitute for your gf that just left you, waiting for her to return to you or a nice toy to make your gf jealous, neither am I a pastime… think about how you’d feel if he/she is doing this to you !!

Behind these cute avis are real people with real feelings and if you let this go further than rlc, treat them with the respect and honesty they deserve. One cannot be everybodys‘ darling but there’s no reason at all to hurt others and play around with their feelings. I you’re here just to have fu(n)(ck), why not? There’s nothing wrong about that…but do tell someone looking for true friendship, real people or even love that you don’t want this. It will come out sooner or later and you’ll both lose anyway.

Feelings and circumstances can change for everyone… adults and friends will understand this and treat you with respect, even trying to help.

If you treat other people like s…t don’t expect them to roll out the red carpet for you and don’t be surprised if sooner or later they are going to treat you just like you did.

If you are a fake, playing like a fake, behaving like a fake, having fake pictures then go and find another fake. There are lots of shops around selling toys, even adult toys. Don’t play around with real people and feelings but go get yourself a sex doll or a vib. Both are for sure not going to argue with you.

I have another side but this one involves NONE of the above mentioned subjects. So if you think you have to do one or more of this stuff, or that you can’t handle this, I’m definitely NOT the right person for you. I love to show this side to real people and that’s what I’m here for…I love to chat to you about whatever, so nice to meet people all over the world, different countries and time zones.

I already met some wonderful people in here and it is true that they say that this happens when you least expect it and I’m grateful for that. And even after all the shit I lived in here, these friends always made and still make it worth staying here.

Did I say that I tried to keep this short?? … LOL. So if you want to getting to know me better, please don’t hesitate to say „Hi“ and don’t run away if I may be a bit reluctant in the beginning. People do nothing without a reason and neither do I and if you treat others right, most of them will do so with you… most!

Who I’d like meet??? Now if we are talking about relationships and not celebrities or such, then let me try to describe it like this : have you ever had someone talking with you (or to others) about his gf telling you how much he’s looking forward to meet her later on after work, telling you what they did these last days or during their weekend and seeing his eyes shine bright while he is talking to you about her? Has this friend ever asked you to take a look at the present he bought for her birthday, or the surprise he wants to make to her for the next time they meet, or simply asked you your opinion if she might like as well the restaurant he chose for dinner with her, again seeing that sparkling in his eyes and hearing that happiness in his voice when he talks about her? Have you noticed this secret smile on his face when he looks at his phone reading the message she just sent him? Or seeing his reaction when she finally enters the room and walks towards him, seeing the happiness now in his face and how gently he first holds her hands and then gives her a soft kiss and forgetting the world around him in this moment… But the most awesome thing is that he shows her how he feels for her and cares about her and makes her see all this as well so that you can see exactly the same smile in her face when she meets him…

I read the following lines on a friends' profile and kindly got his permission to copy it... think about it...

1. Lie about everything: lie about your age, gender, orientation...ah hell just lie about everything.

2. Cheat: Cheat on everyone. Font fuck the guy dancing in the couple next to you while he font fucks the women in the couple next to him.

3. Alt, Alt, Alt! Create as many alts as you can so you can keep rule 2 going.

- Is it asked too much for „old-fashioned“ dating? Not sure why I like them… maybe because dating courtesies are common courtesies too ? Making some efforts, being polite and respectful, making the first step and pick her up, dress nicely, chose a nice place to go, making sincere compliments, having deep conversations as well as nonsense but funny ones too, surprising her, take her hand first and invite her for a dance, be romantic and surprise her, not assuming that sex is to be had at any point of time…

You think that’s asked for too much and a - Hi wanna see my zaby ? - would do ? Well I’m sure it will for some and even less or profaner. Sadly my standards are higher and I’m not even going to reply to such stuff.

- You feel like lying about your intentions, your age, your look, your gender or whatever else? I could write now such sentences like all lies will come out sooner or later or whatever other quotes but that is obvious. It is way more showing a lack of respect or doubting about my intelligence, a friend not worth for trusting. I cannot force you to do so and be honest but you are not going to force me either to accept such people around me (anymore)

- Altruism is not going to bring you very far in here... please note that I wrote "YOU" as it may be a good thing for others for sure benefiting from it, and some even doing it knowingly. The latter only going to see the hurt it brings if the same is going to happen to them too ... maybe. In most cases they go on blaming "YOU" for being so naive and dreamy.

- "No!" is a complete sentence!

- "Fuck you!" does not mean that someone wants to have sex with you!

Who are you?

Are you in touch with all of your darkest fantasies?

Have you created a life for yourself where you can experience them?

I have. I am fucking crazy.

But I am free.