Men:
Since you don’t seem to read past the first paragraph before clicking on the pictures link, you come first. (Btw, they’re all private, so you just might as well read on.)
Yes I’m bisexual, so why the Lez act on here? Real Life, sure, maybe, that’s the mating game, but this site is not EHarmony. Neanderthalic couch-potato behavioral patterns and vocabulary …boring… especially on the Net.
Friend’s List:
Once upon a time I had 28 pages of friends and I didn’t know really half of them.
So now I keep my list down to close friends.
And no, even if we clicked and found each other sympathetic doesn’t mean you’re my friend. Until there’s a real reason we can see and find each other online, why?
Relationships:
Change is something inevitable, neither good nor bad. Yet, the wise know never to seek it, only to await its arrival, acting only then. For with change comes not only growth, but also the disruption of the past and present.
Those that plan and contrive change, never see the results they seek. For the complexities, the laws of change, almost infinite in number, they cannot and do not want to fathom.
Judge not the quiet patience wroth in wisdom for unknowingness. Wisdom comes from silently observing, but never from speaking out.
Also, those who seek wisdom often find their hands tied. This is not a weakness, but rather strength of knowledge, seeing the inevitability and consequences beyond others.
Wisdom is not taken, learned or acquired within a short time. The journey to wisdom is long, spanning a life time wroth in pain, sorrow, heartbreak but also joy.
Yet, wisdom does not come with age. Those who do not question will not find answers. Those who see self-righteousness will be blind to wisdom.
I spoke to two people once of change, but they did not, had not and would not listen. And though, I too was hurt by their actions, then and before, yet, and now, I feel only sadness and sorrow, not anger at their doings. So much lost, for such foolishness.
In my first profile I said this, (though it wasn’t listened to) “I find the assertive intoxicating, the dominating boring”, but I will say it again. Maybe now people will believe.
I am, was and always will be a woman who feels most comfortable with an assertive and caring partner. Only then can I be myself. Only then can I give openly and freely of myself.
I'm not going to say that I’m romantically or sexually monogamous though.
After two cheated on by players relationships on here, I’ve given up on the idea of monogamy on the Net, and find that friends with bennies is the way I want to go.
So, if you like swearing true monogamous love while running around behind your true love's back, sorry I’m not your girl honey. Bought that tee, didn’t fit, and I am not going there ev_ver again.
Don't worry, this doesn't mean I'm going shagger or player. I assuredly do not selfishly follow the amoral concept that here consists only of consequentially meaningless 1s and 0s, creating words and graphics on my computer screen, without touching, without effect on others, only here for my personal agendas and pleasures. Though this may not be Kansas, the inter-actions here, I do feel, have consequences emotionally for all involved, and so though some social morals and norms can be bent, not all may be disregarded. (Meditation XVII - John Donne)
Real Friends:
I’m writing this because in these last few weeks I’ve had to delete some people off my Friend’s List I truly did care about.
Real Friends show true respect and consideration.
If in a situation that could hurt you, they stop because they value you and your friendship more.
If finding out they have possibly hurt you, your feelings, real friends have the integrity, the pride in themselves, to take the effort to explain, make amends and ask for forgiveness… So you both can emotionally and mentally bury the past in the past.
And that without being asked to do so.
